Aggressive bullies can be identified by different age groups. There are ways that schools can choose to control aggressive bullies. Without direct control, aggressiveness among bullies can be out of control. Parents and local community are not bystanders who refuse to get involved. Many bullies may be able to bully others and quietly get away with that. This kind of behavior could also extend to their adulthood. Bullies may turn into good, responsible adults; but it is more likely for them to get involved in more serious violence during adulthood. So, it is important for schools and parents to focus on dealing with bullies, so they can become better students. Parents should make sure that children can safely go through the school system and becomes useful individuals in the workforce.
Students should know how to properly interact with classroom bullies and they need to maintain healthy relationship with anyone. Today, domestic violence has also spread to schools and it is important for adults to get properly involved. The community should be able to get involved and take proactive steps. Community members should have direct communication with local schools. It is easier for schools to enrich students intellectually if there is good communication between students. Parents shouldn’t be afraid to get properly involved. Individuals, small businesses and corporations should be able to help local schools. Schools should have special classes to deal with anger management and conflict resolution. Problematic students should be asked to join these classes and it is a good opportunity to change the direction of families.
Problematic students should be kept busy and taught how to become more responsible. They can participate in weekend jobs, after schools jobs, summer jobs and other part time jobs. Many aggressive students could improve by being given positive experiences. After becoming more responsible, students often have better behaviors at schools. Many students are able to achieve high-level jobs during adulthood, although they had bad behaviors as students. This could be achieved only if students are able to improve their behaviors. There are before and after school programs, which include different academics and sports activities. There should be technical supports, tutoring and sports programs for students. Students will be eager to do things that they love. Local businesses should also support schools to prevent the proliferation of violence.
There could be community volunteers who are able to read to young students and monitor them. Volunteers can come to classes and provide extra monitoring for children. Parents should ask students to join a mentoring program. Parents can also become tutor and provide financial advice for problematic children. The reward of maintaining communication between students and parents can be quite high. Stay at home parent may consider accompanying younger children to school. This will prevent anyone from being picked on. Parents should accept any kind of inputs from other students and parents about the behavior of their children. Aggressive bullying can be prevented and solved in family structure.
